Dating older gay men result in relationships which are worthwhile and have many benefits but, they can include just as many challenges.
A relationship with an older gay daddy may seem to be much more complex than a relationship with a guy who is closer to your own age in terms of relatability.
For this article, we define a gay older man as someone 10-15 years older than you.
This is a gay man who would already have experienced much before they met you.
Read on below to find out what this means for you and how to find that older gay sugar daddy.
Dating Older Gay Men Means A Lack of Games
A gay older man is supposed to be more mature than his younger counterpart and this means less anxiety-ridden situations.
How many times have you panicked waiting for a text message or on a similar note when you ponder about how long you should wait before you respond?
Most of the time with older gay daddies, they don’t play cool just to be cool—if they are not busy they will be quick to respond to communication.
If they don’t respond quickly, it’s because they’re busy with the responsibilities they’ve gained over the years, both personal and professional.
With a more mature gay man if something is not to his liking chances are he will be more straightforward with telling you.
If the relationship is coming to an end, you won’t be ghosted because he’s scared of confrontation, like ending a relationship with a younger guy.
Gay Older Men Are More Financially Responsible
Now, this doesn’t mean your gay daddy is rich but rather he has other priorities than the latest gadget.
These may include taking you on a memorable trip or investments for your future (ahem helping you pay off your student loans).
Think about it, if you settled down with an older gay guy, then maybe he could handle the financial situation while you drop that horrible assistant job you hate and go pursue your dream career.
For a lot of younger gay guys the idea of being spoiled is appealing (why hello shiny new luxury toy) but the stigma of being taken care of holds us back (yes.. were all independent women).
If you’re one of us whose curiosity can overcome any stigma (no f*cks given) consider about becoming a gay sugar baby.
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The best thing is as a gay sugar baby (the one looking for support)—signing up is free.
A Relationship With An Older Gay Man Means Less Drama
As a gay older man, he most likely has had his share of relationships.
This experience is a good thing, your gay daddy won’t get worked up about everything that happens.
You have cute guy friends you hang out with a lot… he’ll understand; he does too.
A lot of gay guys check you out—he won’t sulk.
As a gay baby, your successes will be celebrated and he won’t try to compete as he isn’t green with envy.
His Infinite Wisdom (Ok, Maybe More Extensive than Infinite)
As a young gay guy in today’s world—there are just so many responsibilities to navigate.
Get a job, buy a house, be social, travel, maintain a certain social status and it sure can be overwhelming.
Lucky for us as older gay men have lived longer and therefore more life experience (duh) they often will know the advice/ life-hacks on how to deal with these situations.
Older Gay Men Are More Likely to Be Kind
An advantage for you, your older gay man has gone through his douche gay bro phase and there is less of a chance of him cheating on you.
An older gay daddy has other priorities than wanting to do every hottie around him.
A gay daddy has also realized that he isn’t the center of the universe which means he’ll treat you better than someone who is still figuring himself out.
Dating a gay older man is an experience you should try at least once.
Gay daddies have had much more life experience, and this often gives them the time to focus on the more important things… you!