The thought of a gay sugar baby allowance is both exciting and also a little bit daunting.
Asking can be a little bit scary and insecurities may run rampant.
Questions like am I good enough and how much is too much may come up in your head.
Below is the ultimate gay sugar baby allowance guide and tips to keep in mind when negotiating your allowance:
SUGAR BABY ALLOWANCE TIP #1: BE CONFIDENT
A lot of us can be nervous when asking for things.
Do your research about what is a reasonable amount of sugar baby allowance to be asking for but make sure you don’t aim too low. The results of a recent survey by SeekingArrangement found that the average gay sugar baby allowance was $4000.
Try practicing asking yourself in a mirror and then maybe go out on a few dates with some gay sugar daddies that you’re not really interested in so you can get comfortable with asking.
Remember practice makes perfect.
SUGAR BABY ALLOWANCE TIP #2: THE FIRST DATE
So the first date should all about making the right impression on your gay sugar daddy and the art of conversation is key.
Make sure to read up on current events and have the ability to discuss intellectual topics.
Part of being a great conversationalist is the ability to ask interesting questions and actively listen to subject matters your gay sugar daddy may be interested in – like his job or travel.
Try and avoid discussing allowance here, if it does come up tell him that if he’s interested he can talk to you about it afterward, as this will show your potential gay sugar daddy you have a genuine interest in getting to know him and are not just interested in an easy paycheck.
Although it’s best to let your gay sugar daddy bring up the discussion on an allowance that doesn’t mean you can’t guide him!
After the first date if you guys decided you are a match start determining terms important to the gay sugar arrangement.
These can include things like how often to meet, how discreet your sugar daddy would like things to be, and what kinds of activities are expected.
SUGAR BABY ALLOWANCE TIP #3: THE PHONE YOUR NEW BEST FRIEND
Many gay sugar babies are not really comfortable asking for an allowance in person, leading to them avoiding eye contact and stuttering.
This lack of confidence results in getting low balled, the phone provides a much needed “crutch” can help cover any signs that may give away your nervousness besides what you say and how you say it.
Make sure when asked by your potential gay sugar daddy reply confidently the amount you’re expecting.
Although as a gay sugar baby you should expect some form of negotiation – any gay sugar daddy who questions a reasonable amount too much or explains an amount is way too high is not really worth it.
As they say – there’s always more fish in the sea!
THE ULTIMATE SUGAR BABY ALLOWANCE TIP: DON’T PUT OUT
Although easy sex between guys may come pretty easily, make sure you don’t give it up until the deal is sealed and there is an agreement on terms.
Any guy who wants to sample the goods is probably not too serious about being in a real sugar relationship.
If you’re looking to learn more about the rules of being a sugar baby check out our article.